As an elderly mother of two children, in the process of self-media writing, I can not only learn more scientific and advanced parenting knowledge, but also sort out and reflect on my own parenting concepts, and implement the knowledge I have learned into my own parenting practice.

Bao Ma should have her own job and income, insist on self-media parenting writing, as a side hustle will not be too anxious, no matter how much you read, you are trying to persevere, writing begins with interest, not only feelings, but also an opportunity to learn.

My family Dabao is now a junior in a 211 college, from childhood to adulthood, and has also won national, provincial, municipal, school-level and other large and small awards, the Ministry of Education's whitelist essay competition national awards, municipal outstanding students, etc., not particularly excellent, I am pleased that the parent-child relationship is better.

Dabao often talks to me on the phone, makes videos, instead of opening up to contact me, he reaches out to his mother to ask for money, and likes to talk to me about anything, whether it is good or bad, knowing that I will understand her and give her support and advice.

I don't agree with her ideas, and I will always insist on giving her my advice and enlightening her with my life experience and lessons. Young people have active minds and relatively little social experience, so I have to check for her, especially in terms of choosing a job.

I have said everything that needs to be said, and while giving her advice, I sometimes help her find information and tell her the path to implementation. The suggestion is not nagging, if you talk too much, the child will be annoyed, stop in moderation and let her choose rationally.

Fortunately, the child went to college and did not lie down, and has been working hard to enrich his academic knowledge at the same time, increase his social practice experience, increase his life experience, and work hard for his future work development.

Erbao is now in the second grade of primary school, and has also won the provincial award of the Ministry of Education's white list, the painting competition award issued by the local Municipal Education and Sports Bureau, etc., and has obtained the seventh grade certificate of vocal music this year.

There are some similarities between the personality and Dabao.,Get along well with friends and classmates.,It's the teacher's little assistant.。 They all like to paint, Dabao took the sketch level, Erbao also likes to paint, won an award, and the enthusiasm is higher, but some hobbies are just interests, children like it, after all, they can't be the main business, vocal music painting and the like, it's not easy to get employed.

"Learn mathematics, physics and chemistry well, and you won't be afraid to go all over the world." This sentence is still applicable now, science and engineering majors are easy to employ, and it also tests children's logical thinking ability.

Children love to play by nature, learning inevitably to urge and remind, sometimes angry, after the quarrel, a while to reconcile, because the baby has a very strong sense of security, know that they are naughty, the mother also loves herself, sometimes give me a surprise and touched.

If you want your child to learn well, you must maintain a good parent-child relationship, so that your child will listen to you and trust you.

Although sometimes out of nature, the child only finishes the homework and refuses to do more, the mother has to urge the child to fight against laziness, and take learning as a habit and happiness, which requires a process and the mother's persistence, and slowly the child will be self-disciplined.

We have been working hard, there has been burnout, after a short break, we will set off immediately, each of us will do our own things, parenting is a responsibility, but not all, a harmonious parent-child relationship is very important.

Be yourself first, let your children see your hard work and diligence, teach by word and deed, and believe that the harder you work, the better.