"In the second half of life, redefine self-worth."This is a classic line in "The Second Half of My Life", which is the core of the influence of this drama to hit again, and it is also a kind reminder that reflects how many women in real life should reconcile better in the second half of their lives.

In real life, we are all busy with life, and we are going to the second half of our lives in troubles and entanglements for family, career, relationships and other issues. When facing the emotional choices of the second half of our lives again, we will all be entangled like the hit drama "The Second Half of My Life":

“我这半年服务不值这个价？你请个护工每月得花两万！”

"Sign it, I will give you a pension, and the quality of service will remain the same."

"Professor Shen, you haven't fooled me, and I haven't fooled you. How much fraud is there in a marriage of our age? ”

"Shen Dai, have you thought about it for the old man? What he needs is not memories, but a living person who can serve tea and pour water. ”

Watching the hit drama "The Second Half of My Life" is like walking into a mirror of the magic of fate, reflecting our various confusions and struggles in marriage, family, and emotions, allowing us to see the tenacity and beauty of women at different stages of life, as well as the embarrassment similar to Shen Zhuoran (played by Zhang Guoli) who carefully planned a marriage proposal and was defeated by the "prenuptial agreement" handed over by Lian Yilian.

"The Second Half of My Life" takes the emotional needs of the elderly as the starting point, showing the roles and choices of women of different ages in marriage, family and society. Lian Yilian, the head nurse played by Yang Tongshu, has become a warm light in the play with her gentle, kind, and tenacious female virtues.

The image of Lian Yilian, the head nurse played by Yang Tongshu, not only makes people rethink the value of female virtues, but also reminds many viewers of the beauty of the once popular female virtues in our society to the family, the individual, and the marriage.

Lian Yilian is a gentle, kind and professional female figure. As the head nurse, she shows a high level of professionalism in her work, and always responds with a smile and patience in the face of patients' difficulties and tedious affairs, conveying a warm power.

This gentle power is not only reflected in her professional ethics, but also runs through her relationship with Shen Zhuoran. She used delicate emotions and a tolerant attitude to help Shen Zhuoran get out of the shadow of widowhood and regain the meaning of life.

However, Lian Yilian's gentleness is not blindly weak. She showed resilience in the face of family and emotional hardships. She raised her son alone, and in the face of the cold eyes and difficulties of Shen Zhuoran's family, she chose to forbear, but never compromised. Her tenacity and gentleness complement each other, allowing her to remain sober and independent in complex emotional relationships, and ultimately win the respect and affection of the audience.

"The major event in life is to live, to live a day to be happy for a day, love will never grow old, life can not leave regrets, I have the right to pursue happiness"It is a beautiful portrayal and true gift of Lian Yi's outlook on life, emotion, and life.

She used her actions to prove that the virtue of women is not only gentleness and kindness, but also a clear understanding of self in the persistent pursuit of happiness, and self-improvement without blind obedience, greed, confusion, and dependence.

In stark contrast to Lian Yilian is Liu Lina played by Mei Ting. As an ordinary housewife, Liu Lina represents the current situation of many middle-aged women in society.She sees her family as the whole of her life, but gradually loses herself in her marriage.

Her life is entirely focused on her husband and children, but she neglects her own growth and happiness. This "sacrificial" concept of marriage, although seemingly selfless, often leads to marital burnout and life frustration, and is often more and more passive and blindly obedient in everyone's reality changes.

The bad three views in society not only affected Liu Lina's marriage, but also made her full of jealousy and anxiety when facing Lian Yilian. She tried to imitate Lian Yilian's "charm technique", but she couldn't really understand Lian Yilian's gentleness and wisdom. Liu Lina's plight reflects the disorientation of many women in society in marriage: they pin their happiness on others, blindly succumbing to the hypocrisy of society, but neglecting the realization of self-worth.

In marriage, women's self-awareness and positive values are particularly important. Lian Yilian is not like Liu Lina, and she does not learn the vanity of some women in society, she always maintains a clear mind and independent personality in her relationship with Shen Zhuoran.

She did not give up her bottom line because of Shen Zhuoran's economic conditions, nor did she lower her requirements because of his age. She pursues love of equality, respect and mutual understanding, rather than attaching herself to others to realize her own worth. This independent and sober view of marriage is exactly what many women lack in real life.

Looking at today's society, some women fall into marital unhappiness due to bad three views, and they pin their happiness on the recognition of the outside world, but ignore the inner satisfaction. Lian Yilian's choice provides us with a new perspective: happiness does not come from the giving of others, but from the recognition and acceptance of oneself.

"The Second Half of My Life" deeply explores the relationship between female virtue and life blessings through the comparison between Lian Yilian and Liu Lina. Yang Tongshu used delicate performances to show Lian Yilian's gentleness and tenacity to the fullest, presenting an idealized female image to the audience. And Liu Lina's story reminds us how bad three views can lead to unhappiness in marriage and setbacks in life.

"The biggest regret in life is to be a perfect person in the eyes of others, but to miss your life forever."In this era full of hustle and bustle, women's virtues should not be simply defined as gentleness and sacrifice, but should be a sober recognition and persistent pursuit of self-worth.

As stated in "Strange and Wonderful Sorrow Everywhere":"Happiness is not perfection in the eyes of others, but inner peace and contentment."

As Lian Yilian demonstrates, true feminine virtue is not simply gentleness and devotion, but a combination of gentleness and tenacity, the ability to remain sober and independent in difficult situations.

True happiness also comes from inner peace and contentment, rather than external recognition and giving. Lian Yilian's story truly tells us that women should not lose themselves in marriage and family, but should find their own happiness through continuous learning and growth.

I hope that every woman who walks into the second half of her life in the impetuous society can draw strength from the story of Lian Yipi, and can find her own blessing code in self-awareness and sobriety step by step with the light, self-improvement, self-love and self-esteem.

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