01.

Some time ago, a male fan sent me a private message:

"At the moment, no matter which platform it is, it seems that all emotional bloggers are guiding boys to love girls, to give girls attitudes, and to give girls a sense of security.

Why doesn't anyone tell those girls how to love a guy?

Boys also crave to be loved. ”

After hearing this, I asked a few male friends, "What do you think a full-score girlfriend looks like?" ”

Next, there is the image of a "perfect girlfriend" in their hearts.

02.

1. Don't compare the object with others

There are some girls who always complain that their boyfriends are not as good as others.

However, their initial thoughts may just be to expect their boyfriend to be more attentive to them, but the boyfriend feels that he is inferior to others in the eyes of his girlfriend.

A girl who really knows how to fall in love will not compare herself with others in everything.

Even if you want the other person to become better, you will not do it by comparing yourself with others, but will motivate the other person to make changes, rather than forcing the other person to achieve the level that you are satisfied with.

She understands that everyone is unique, and being attracted means that the highlights in the other person attract her, so she will accept and recognize it from the bottom of her heart.

2. Be empathetic and empathetic

An empathetic girl is like a fire in winter, which can make a boy's heart warm.

For example, Princess Anne's treatment of Joe in the movie "Roman Holiday" is a role model.

When Joe had to choose between work and love, Princess Anne did not mess around, but gave Joe respect, support and trust, making Joe feel that no matter how she chose, she had a true affection to accompany her.

In reality, this kind of girl can better understand what the boy thinks.

In fact, boys don't want a lot of help, but they want to be understood and encouraged.

Such a girl is not only a lover, but also a partner who can understand him, go through difficulties together, understand his mind, and tolerate each other.

Being able to speak well makes boys very happy, because she can make boys feel comfortable and down-to-earth, can listen to boys and communicate with boys, and respects each other's ideas.

3. Emotionally stable and never unreasonable

When it comes to falling in love, emotional stability is especially important to make the relationship between two people better.

Those girls who can make boys especially feel sorry for and love can generally manage their emotions well.

is like Tong Nian in "Dear, Loved", she will not get angry and foolish because of a little thing, but knows how to say her emotions and thoughts.

If she and Han Shangyan had an awkward quarrel, she would calm down first, chat with Han Shangyan calmly, tell what she thought in her heart, and listen carefully to Han Shangyan.

This way of getting along makes Han Shangyan feel very relaxed, and she can know better that she is sensible and open-minded.

4. I feel sorry for you spending money for her

There is an essential difference between not spending your money and feeling sorry for your money.

If she doesn't spend your money, it may mean that she doesn't want to have a long-term future with you and doesn't want to be financially involved.

But if a girl feels sorry for your money, the nature is very different.

In their hearts, they will not take it for granted that their boyfriends spend money for themselves, but to share the expenses between the two, which can reduce the financial burden of the boy and enhance the communication and relationship between the two.

remembers that in "To Our Simple Little Beauty", Chen Xiaoxi treated Jiang Chen like this.

went out shopping together and saw that Jiang Chen wanted to buy a dress with a high price, she would persuade Jiang Chen to look at other clothes that were more cost-effective.

And when Jiang Chen insisted on buying it, she would take the initiative to buy drinks and snacks on later dates to share some expenses.

Such behavior undoubtedly shows her deep affection for you.

5. Cherish what you give

Feelings are always mutual, and loving and being loved are more valuable only when they echo each other.

She will certainly not enjoy the care and attention you give without burden, but will be full of gratitude for your efforts.

When you have carefully cooked a delicious meal for him, she will look at you with affection and thank you sincerely;

You give her a warm hug when she is upset, and she will hold your hand tightly and tell you how lucky she is to have you by her side.

At the same time, she will also give more when you need it, without hesitation, in order to repay your affection.

When you are in a low mood, she will be silently by your side and listen patiently to your troubles;

When you are sick, she will be anxiously by your side and take care of you;

03.

I once saw such a sentence on the Internet:

"Love is not about falling in love with a perfect person, but about loving you when she is perfect."

Therefore, in the world of feelings, whether it is a boy or a girl, you should understand, support and tolerate each other, and give each other enough time to become the perfect object in your heart.

A truly beautiful love is when both parties grow together and face the ups and downs of life hand in hand.

May each of us find that soul mate who is compatible with us, manage it with heart, and make love long and warm.