Many people have been in the workplace for twenty or thirty years, and they still have nothing and are empty-handed. In this crucial career in life, these three things will affect your way of thinking and doing things, and your way of thinking and doing things will determine your life and destiny.
1. Follow the right person The people here refer to your nobles, including leaders, colleagues, friends, etc. Things are gathered by like, and people are grouped. Whoever you are with, you will become. This is an impact of your network on yourself, so in your professional life, you must choose good people to follow. In addition, most of the time, the size of your network directly determines the success or failure of your career. So how to find noble people in the workplace and how to follow the right people? Harvey McKay, a master of U.S.-China interpersonal relations, pointed out that building a network is a process of digging a well, and although it takes a lot of sweat, it gets a steady stream of wealth. Therefore, you need to pay attention to the industry you are in and keep an eye out for the people in this industry. Especially your colleagues, who may be able to help you do your job better. Networking with your colleagues is all about increasing your own influence. 2. Be able to speak To be able to talk is not to say as much as possible, but to get to the point. When what you say gets to the heart of it, even if you only say one sentence, it's better than someone else saying a hundred words! The way you speak has a big impact on your workplace relationships, and you must remember to only say what needs to be said and only what is useful. For the rest, let's do more with less talk! So how do you be able to speak in the workplace? Pay attention to these three points.1. Learn to listenListening is about getting to know your leaders and colleagues better. Not listening in the workplace will make you make a lot of mistakes, and you can easily offend your leaders and colleagues unintentionally. So, before you speak, listen carefully.2. Put an end to unobstructedPeople who are open-mouthed are usually unbearable. Maybe you think you're right, but that's from your point of view. Even if what you say is really right, if you don't pay attention to the way you communicate, it will hurt the other person. Remember, no one likes someone who is open-mouthed.3. Say nice things firstWhen you want to criticize someone, or point out someone's mistakes, remember to say nice things first. In real life, many things can't be carried out just because there is a problem with the way of communication. 3. Don't be afraid of losses If you want to build a good network environment for yourself and create your own network, you must abandon the mentality of being afraid of losing money, and contribute to others on the basis of sincerity, so as to become a worthy partner for others. Sometimes, you offer your own value first and let others take advantage of it, and on the surface it seems to be a loss. In fact, you can take advantage of this opportunity to become good friends with him and include your network, which is even more rewarding!