In order to solve the problems of disobedience, slow homework, procrastination in eating and disobedience to parents, it is necessary to comprehensively use educational psychology, family education theory and practical experience to solve the problems. The following is a comprehensive set of solutions that can help parents effectively improve these issues.

Part 1: Understanding Problem 1.0 Understanding the Reasons Behind Your Child's Behavior Stages of Cognitive Development: Children in the first grade are in the early stages of cognitive development, with poor concentration and self-control, which may make it difficult to maintain attention and concentration for long periods of time.

Emotional factors: Children may face problems such as school adaptation, learning pressure, etc., which can lead to mood swings that affect learning and behavioral performance.

Family environment: Family atmosphere, parenting style, etc. have a profound impact on children's behavior and attitudes, and it is necessary to pay attention to the influence of family environment on children's behavior.

2.0 Set goals and establish good learning and behavior habits: Help children develop good habits of being obedient, focused, and completing tasks efficiently.

Promote family harmony: Through effective communication and education, enhance understanding and trust between parents and children, and establish a harmonious family atmosphere.

Part 2: Solution 1.0 Establish a positive family atmosphere Parent-child communication: Encourage open and honest communication between parents and children, listen to children's thoughts and feelings, and respect their individuality and needs.

Praise and encouragement: Give children timely affirmation and encouragement to stimulate their interest in learning and self-confidence, and build a positive self-identity.

Establish rules and boundaries: Work with your child to set house rules and clarify the norms and consequences of behavior to develop your child's sense of responsibility and self-discipline.

2.0 Provide support and guidance to make a study plan: Work with your child to make a daily study plan, arrange study and rest time reasonably, and help them establish good study habits.

Provide learning support: Give appropriate guidance and help to children when they are learning, solve the difficulties they encounter in learning, and enhance the efficiency and sense of achievement of learning.

Set goals and rewards: Set learning goals with your child, and give appropriate rewards when they achieve certain grades, so as to motivate them to learn and be motivated.

3.0 Encourage self-directed learning and a sense of responsibility to cultivate independence: Give children appropriate autonomy, involve them in the decision-making and problem-solving process, and cultivate their self-directed learning ability.

Emphasize responsibility: Cultivate a sense of responsibility for your own learning and behavior, so that they realize that their actions affect their own lives and the learning of others.

4.0 Establish a positive learning environmentCreate a suitable learning environment: Provide a quiet, clean and comfortable learning space to reduce external distractions, which helps children concentrate and improve their learning efficiency.

Provide learning resources: Provide a variety of learning resources, including books, teaching aids, etc., to stimulate children's interest and curiosity in learning.

Part 3: Implementation and Follow-up 1.0 Gentle but firm execution to avoid excessive punishment: Avoid using excessively harsh punishment methods so as not to affect your child's self-esteem and motivation to learn.

Stick to it: Parents need to stick to the rules and boundaries that have been set to ensure that the child understands the consequences of the action.

2.0 Continuous Observation and FeedbackObserve children's behavior: Regularly observe children's learning and behavior performance, and make timely adjustments and feedback when problems are found.

Communicate with teachers: Maintain close contact with your child's teachers to understand your child's performance and needs in school, and work together to help your child solve problems.

3.0 Adjust the plan in a timely manner: Adjust the education plan flexibly according to the child's growth and changes, and maintain communication and understanding with the child.

Finally, it is important to remember that a child's development is an ongoing process that requires the love and guidance of parents. Through sincere communication with children and appropriate support and guidance, it is believed that children will eventually establish good learning habits and behavioral literacy, and become positive individuals.

In the process of implementing solutions, it is also important to be aware of and respect your child's personality differences, understanding that they may have failures and setbacks, but these are all part of growing up. Most importantly, grow with your child and go through the journey of learning and growth together.

Through the comprehensive application of these methods and concepts, it is believed that parents can effectively solve the problems of children's disobedience and procrastination, establish a harmonious family atmosphere, and promote the healthy growth and development of children.

Proofread by Zhuang Wu