In traditional Chinese culture, family education has always been an important cornerstone of family harmony and children's growth. With the progress of society and the renewal of concepts, the concept of raising a daughter to "avoid three things", and the concept of raising children with "three taboos" is constantly adapting to the needs of modern society.

Let's take a look at what these refer to?

Adopted daughter to "three avoidance"

• Avoid patriarchy

In the traditional concept of the family, the phenomenon of preference for sons over daughters is not uncommon. However, in modern society, gender equality has become a basic consensus. As parents, we should abandon this stereotype and give our daughters the same attention as our sonsand resources.

• Avoid over-nourishment

Excessive enrichment may lead to a child's lack of ability to live independently, and even the formation of materialistic values. Moderate enrichment can cultivate children's aesthetic ability and elegant taste, but more importantly, teach them how to manage wealth and cherish the fruits of labor.

• Avoid neglecting safety education

Safety education for girls is crucial, not only in terms of physical self-protection, but also in terms of psychological awareness. Parents should subtly impart relevant knowledge in their daily lives, such as not revealing personal information at will, and how to seek help in case of danger.

There are "three taboos" in raising children

• Don't take it all in a bag

Many parents are accustomed to making decisions for their children, or even doing everything. However, this method will deprive children of the opportunity to exercise, and it will be difficult for them to develop independent thinking and problem-solving skills. Parents should let go appropriately, encourage boys to complete tasks independently, and accumulate experience through practice.

• Don't over-suppress your emotions

Traditionally, boys are often asked to be "strong" and "not to cry". However, this way of suppressing emotions can be psychologically damaging to children. Parents should guide boys to face up to their emotions and learn to express and regulate their inner feelings.

• Don't get used to it

Habitual children are like harmful children, and doting will make boys become willful and ungrateful and unappreciated. It is especially important to cultivate a sense of responsibility and rules from an early age. For example, you can assign some chores to your child so that they can appreciate the fun and value of giving.